The Period's Cultural War
For ages, the womb has been a battlefield, where faith leaders, authorities (all males) and later feminists fought. The keywords were conception control, dynastic purity, social hierarchy, sexuality, birth control, contraception and abortion. After a short lull, when women seemed to have been left alone to take care of their womb, the peach shaped organ is again becoming a political flashpoint.
In several
countries, notably in the United States, womb owners are facing interferences
from meddling conservative policymakers, this time males as well females. Energized by the enactment of abortion
restriction policies, these busy body lawmakers are now concerning themselves
with women’s basic biological functions and nosing into their bathroom cabinet.
Fascinatingly, women’s periods and the
modest products used to deal with them are the focus of a fierce cultural war.
The rallying
call ranges from the absurd: to ban girls younger than 12 from talking about
their periods in school to the ridiculous: to block distribution of free
tampons because the policy is “woke” inspired.
At the other end of the spectrum, in progressive Europe, and following
the Spanish example, lawmakers are debating granting menstrual leave to employees. The Spanish congress has voted a three-day
menstrual leave which, in case of disabling cramp can be extended to five, all
paid for by the social security system.
Let’s begin
this story with that routine women’s monthly visitor, menstruation, which is at
the center of this ideological Tohu Bohu.
The world over, women have been very inspired to describe their periods
without pronouncing the word. In the English-speaking
world, more than 5000 euphemisms and colloquialisms substitute the socially stigmatized
word. They range from the poetic “surfing
the crimson wave”, the subtle “lady time” to the vulgar “on the rag”. I chose “the monthly visitor” (unwelcome, but
not always!). In other countries,
imagination also runs wild. Many French
ladies fear that “The English have landed”; in Brazil, they are with Chico (“estar
de chico”), chico means pig, in other words women are dirty (cultural stigma). In Denmark, there is a bizarre political
connotation “there are Communists in the funhouse”, probably waving their red
blood flags!
I really
wonder what term Florida’s 6th grader girls use when they chat in the
schoolyard. The Republican majority of the
state legislature wants to curb sex education in public school, and if it has
its way, teenagers will be forbidden from even speaking about periods. Republicans stress that sexual education is a
parental responsibility and want to limit what teachers are allowed to tell
their students. Pubertal girls may enjoy
tricking these intrusive lawmakers and flout their farcical diktats. Why not pepper their chats with the arcane
word menarche which defines the first menstrual bleeding? Conservative politicians probably do not know
what it means!
Florida is
becoming a leader in the sex and gender war, but it is being challenged by other
GOP-led states. These states are falling
over themselves to enact restrictive period policies. “Woke free tampons” ran news headline after
the Republican-led State House of Idaho blocked the distribution of free
menstrual items to students. In America,
as in many other countries, surveys have indicated that many female students
face financial constraints to buy sanitary pads and tampons. The Idaho Period Project estimates that one
in four students misses classes because she cannot afford menstrual
products. Female GOP legislators derided
the policy as absurd and too liberal, dreading of turning Idaho into a nanny
state. They blocked the bill, putting their
ideology before their sense of sisterhood.
One of these conservative politicians claimed that schools were “obsessed
with the private parts of our children”.
It is the Northwest version of a purdah practice which keeps
menstruating women away from the rest of the family and the community, barring
them from carrying out their activities and education. Elsewhere in Maine, a Republican state
lawmaker opposed the distribution of menstrual hygiene product in the female
jails because jails would become like “country clubs”!
Kenya was
the first country to give menstrual products in school. Period poverty has been debated in Brazil
where it faced conservative opposition during the government of former
president Jair Bolsonaro. In 2021, he
blocked a policy aimed at distributing free menstrual products to disadvantaged
girls and women. Six months later, the legislators
overturned his veto and on March 8, 2023, Women’s Day, President Lula issued a
decree to guarantee the product’s distribution.
Falling short
of free distribution, many countries have lifted sale taxes on menstrual
products. France has not been immune to
male cluelessness and callowness. In
2015, a minister opposed scrapping the VAT on pad and tampons, because for the
sake of equity, shaving cream should also be exempt! This was before the beard
raging era.
In terms of gender
policies, France falls behind its neighbor Spain; this country has amazingly
transformed itself from a conservative Opus Dei backwater to Europe progressive
trailblazer. The new law granting menstrual
leave of absence for disabling periods is a European first. The law requires a
doctor’s note and the social security system will foot the bill. Spain joined Japan, Indonesia, Taiwan, S.
Korea and Zambia, countries not famed for active female participation in politics
and economy. Few individual companies
offer menstrual leave and the experience seems positive for all concerned. Through these policies, female bodily functions are
economically rewarded (taxpayer money) and the womb becomes a public good.
I am old-school feminist and have mixed feeling about
this law: Is it liberating? Will it help or hinder women’s economic
participation? Some pro-women laws have backfired and dragged women backward. In stressed economic times, they become a
disincentive to employment, let alone to attaining equal pay. Menstrual leave can stigmatize and embarrass
women who regard their periods as a functional, social and economic handicap. Some jobs are still off limits to women. As a former exploration geologist, I
experienced menstrual hygiene constraints.
By preventing embarrassing situations, tampons were my liberators, they allowed
me to work with my male peers. In the
bush, tampons were imported products and were neither easy to find or
cheap. My male colleagues had a beer
budget, I had a Tampax budget, but freedom is priceless. Free tampons are not “woke” but a sound social
investment!
From France: " Wow! Stepping outside your comfort zone! Brilliant. I very much enjoyed reading this clever compilation of misfeasance ."
ReplyDeleteFrom the UK:" Provocative, excellent. Menstrual leave: the jury is still out! It could work with limited benefits cheats!!"
ReplyDeleteDe France:" Tt a fait d'accord avec ton point de vue! Bravo!"
ReplyDeleteFirst, thank you for having explained the term for me.
ReplyDeleteIn my youth - middle of last century in Middle Europe - we used to say "The Red Aunt is here". Menstrual pain was not supposed to exist: you had to ignore it and tough it out, or, if it became really bad, invent a lie.
I am all in favour of helping needy women to get their sanitary products; if you are poor, it makes a huge difference. I remember that in my early youth my sanitary products consumed 10 % of my meager pocket money.
Interestingly, many UN offices in the field distributed condoms freely, including in the women s toilets. But I never saw a single sanitary product for women.
Menstrual leave? A bad idea, employers will prefer hiring men. Athough I suspect that in practice women will do what they have always done: bear it and smile. Who wants to risk their job?
I meant the term "woke", sorry for my above omission. And I wonder if I am the only one who did not know its meaning?
ReplyDeleteMarianne, your comments are very much appreciated and relevent! Same generation: Bear it out, "nao molesa" as we say here. Now, nanny states are taking far too many social responsibilities! However, periods are never fun and I wish the Red Aunt would visit everybody, women and men!
DeleteWell done Spain, hopefully for the females of the world other nations quickly follow suit. Another enlightening blog Beatrice and as a long time feminist I find the inequalities that you and your colleagues have had to bare (and mainly continue to bare) quite intolerable. I am certainly appalled by the recent judicial decisions coming out of the US, plus the atrocities in Iran. Before we can achieve world peace we need to get the basics sorted.
ReplyDeletePeter, your solidarity is welcome. We girls had to "tough it out" and keep our sense of humour. The Republican lawmakers are spiraling into a bondless craziness. They will pay for that, I hope."
DeleteFrom Rio:" As usual, a very interesting article and once more, you show how versatile you can be with your themes. I was brought up at a very traditional and famous French convent school where the nuns presented periods as something to be ashamed of."
ReplyDeleteFROM NYC:" I just read your blog, a good one. I call, and everyone else I know does, a period. I am certainly not for taking time off for it unless one has bad cramps. I used to take medication for the cramps if they were bad."
ReplyDeleteFrom France:"Très intéressant votre blog . J'ai appris plein de choses sur ce sujet.
ReplyDeleteMon opinion est partagée sur certaines lois comme celle en vigueur en Espagne: j'ai toujours considéré que ce sujet était strictement privé et je ne sais pas si octroyer des jours de congé va aider la cause des femmes. J'imagine les commentaires des éléments masculins qui héritent de la charge de travail de la personne absente pendant quelques jours.
A l'inverse les lois des conservateurs US vont beaucoup trop loin et mettent les femmes dans des situations dégradantes.
En France j'ai noté une vague de fond plutôt insidieuse sous couvert de propagande écolo, qui tend à augmenter le temps passé aux tâches ménagères et à remettre les femmes dans des situations subalternes."
From France:" Great blog, B. I' m shocked at what you have discovered is going on! Very dangerous indeed."
ReplyDeleteFrom France: "A minima ces lois et initiatives libèrent la parole ! Il y a tellement de tabou sur le sujet qu’on passe parfois à côté de vrais sujets.
ReplyDeleteFrom France:" et on eduque ces messieurs par la meme occasion qui n ' ont forcement idee des sides effects."
ReplyDeleteFrom UK: "The key thing is that periods must be talked about more as every women
ReplyDeletehas a different experience. I was brought up to only discuss the matter
with my mother or best friend; it was never a conversation to have with
men around so I suppose men inflicted this stigma on girls. I suffered
very heavy bleeding, so needed frequent, long loo breaks and lots of
supplies and changes of clothes, over 7 days. Friends had minimal
bleeding and only over 3-4 days (lucky them).
I do think though that women should learn accept what happens to them
and just get on with it, as its a natural occurrence that needs a
procedure working out for each individual. This is part of growing up.
Everyone seems to need excuses not to work these days. I am not in
agreement with menstrual leave as an employment right, as productivity
would sink. Doctors can always provide a sick note for the few who
suffer very badly (e.g. those with endometriosis), and women must take
responsibility for dosing themselves with analgesia. I do think that
work adjustment though would be a better way of tackling it; more seated
jobs and allowance for more loo time. I disagree with free sanitary
products for all; those of us not on the breadline can easily afford
them. Tax should be removed though. However, I do think they should be
provided free to those on very low incomes, those needing the Food
Banks, and, of course, prisoners (whatever is America thinking?!?)."
From the US:" The period blog was great! Found it interesting that a legislator would find making feminine products available in prisons would make them seem like a country club! And to compare them to shaving cream! Absolutely outrageous! Not sure how I feel about paid time off for periods. I think that would have hindered my career advancement by making my female status a negative. I remember (with shame), as a young executive being concerned about mothers of young children who often took time off when the kids were sick. I'm not proud of that but imagine that mindset would apply too often to women taking time off for periods. But then I was fortunate; they weren't fun but I was not incapacitated during my "time of the month" (my phrase from back in the day)."
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